Guest post by "Ayshara" Concerning point 3, I really don't think so. Sometimes people just click, I'm in a relationship that happened sort of like Theresa and Chrys. Listen to 'I know you're out there somewhere' by The Moody Blues and you'll start to get an idea of what it's like. I see a lot of myself personality wise in Theresa even though I wasn't raised Christian or have family who was in the military. My parents were, I was not; I follow a more spiritual path because I was drawn to it, a part of that is because of my own ablities. My 18th was mere days before the 9/11 attacks, having ones own gift show the possiblity of war was something that took me _years_ to get over. I still don't talk about it much but I can now if I need to.