Guest post by "KS Claw" Chrys, you might have helped her in some way, but you did it in the worst way possible. And even if you don't get shoved off the cliff, it will be a long while before you're properly forgiven.
People with something like that weighing on their minds and not wanting help? Well... When they do get help, they tend to bite the head off the person 'helping'. I speak from experience